How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 08:17
Procrastinates a lot.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Does having the wrong address on my car insurance invalidate my policy?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Why do many women wear sleeveless shirts, more so than men?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What are some common examples of condescending behavior?
Ask yourself:
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why do Muslims not get HIV/AIDS in spite of having 4 wives and multiple relationships?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What are the common formulas for improvising ornaments in bel canto singing?
What I need from you?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What are some funny and smart quotes?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
That's it for today.
Hillary thinks we must censor or "we lose total control". Why does she demand total control?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Does not procrastinate.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What are the most significant instances of romantic jealousy in the Harry Potter series?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What was your embarrassing moment in front of your father-in-law as an Indian daughter-in-law?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Do not set goals—set systems.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.